Monday, August 25, 2014

Farewell Mwanya Family

Before I head to my specific village in Southern province, I feel I must take a moment to honor and recognize the family I have been staying with the past 11 weeks. Their individual stories and life continue to astound me daily.

Bataata/father: Greenwell Mwanya

Greenwell Mwanya grew up in Southern Province until he was about 18 years old. He only received education through grade seven. He failed the test to make it to grade 8 and his family did not have the funds to pay for his enrollment. Mwanya has spent the majority of his life in Chongwe as a police officer. He is almost 60 years old and now mainly supports the family through subsistence farming; growing and selling maize, growing onions, tomatoes, cabbage, sweet potatoes, pumpkin, melon and collects honey during certain times of the year. Although he grows many vegetables, he often struggles financially and sometimes his family does not eat a well-balanced dinner with protein, vitamins and carbs. This being said, he prides himself on the many animals he has. He has many cows, dozens of chickens, one pig, about five dogs and a cat. Cows are a large sign of prosperity and wealth. He plans to give his sons a cow when they leave the home if they have been respectful and are deserving of such a gift. Mwanya has a total of 10 children. In his first marriage he had five children. With his current wife (my host mother) he has had five children and one is one the way. It is often difficult to understand where all of the children actually live. Most of the children from his first wife are older and have their own compounds farther away. Several children stay with my host mother’s sister and visit on the weekend. There are a total of five children who live full time on the compound with my host father and mother; three boys and two girls. Currently the ones that are old enough attend school full time. When I have asked Mwanya whether he wants his children to continue pursuing an education he states that he has no doubt in his mind that he wants to find the funds for his children to attend school through secondary school. He recognizes the value of education. Mwanya is heavily involved with a local church and attends meetings on Saturdays as well as service on Sundays. He often speaks of God during everyday conversations, expressing his devotion and beliefs. This is very common in Zambia. He speaks three languages; Tonga, Nyanja, and broken English. Mwanya is an incredibly jolly, cheerful man who greets those he sees with a giant smile and upbeat voice. He is well respected in the community and seen as a man that can be trusted. He will be missed.
Greenwell Mwanya/Bataata lookin' good on his way to Lusaka

Bamaama/mother: Sarah Mwanya
I have grown to truly appreciate Sarah Mwanya. Bamaama is one of the most hard-working women I have ever met. She provides for many children, cooking three meals and multiple snacks each day, hauling water back and forth over 500m, cleaning dishes, washing clothes, waking early each morning to sweep and prepare, and all with a smile on her face and an incredible attitude. Bamaama has lived in Chongwe her entire life. Mwanya is the only husband she has had and she currently has five children and is pregnant with another. Although she is clearly pregnant, I have not heard her speak of the pregnancy once. I think it is rather taboo to discuss pregnancy in great length here. Bamaama received education only through grade 7. Although she has not received much ‘formal’ education, she is very intelligent. She is very in tune with everything that is happening in the community and seems to state her mind when she feels a need. She speaks Nyanja and a little bit of Tonga and English. When we speak I know that she understands what I am saying based on the brief responses and feedback she gives me. She is very patient and has taught me the few Tonga words she knows. When we first met I said to her, “we will learn together.” Since the beginning, this is exactly what we have done. Her English and my Tonga has improved immensely. She truly has become another mother of mine.
Each night my Ba Taata teaches me Tonga songs. We typically belt them out as a family while the children dance along excitedly. My host father calls me his daughter. After returning from a long trip away he explained to me how he thinks of me as a part of the family. He described this saying, “My daughter, we have missed you. A family is like a hand, with each finger representing a member of the family. When one is missing, we are not complete. We were missing you.” These are the moments when I know I will truly miss them….
Ba Maama and I washing (BTW not an easy task)
Naomie 4 yrs old and Matius 6 yrs old. Bundles of joy!

Peace Corps Training Updates
The weather is changing. “Winter”/cold season is ending and the hot season is approaching. Many volunteers tell us that this is the time of year when they often lay fully naked on the floor of their hut praying for the sun to go down each day. Coming from a very mild and moderate climate of the Pacific Northwest, I am a bit concerned. Ha!
In good news, training is near the end! We; as in 30 other Community Health Volunteers, have just about successfully completed 11 weeks of extensive training covering topics in various health approaches, technical information, cross-cultural lessons and language training. This coming week we will be having a large cultural day, sharing one final meal with our current host families. We will be cooking American style food, singing the American National Anthem, Zambian National Anthem, and performing many traditional Zambian songs and dances. After this we will be moved to a hotel in Lusaka where we will stay for several days before heading to our specific provinces. Within this time frame we will set up a Zambian bank account, buy the necessary items for our future homes and finalize loose ends before being dropped by a Peace Corps cruiser to our specific villages.



 Additional photos...
Relaxing a bit after long training days ;)


Presentation on water and sanitation

My Tonga language class. Ba Given 2nd in the row had his hands full with us ladies 

Tonga Land: The Land with Multiple Wives


FYI: The experience written about in this post occurred weeks ago in mid-July. I have only just now been able to upload photos to accompany the written portion.

10 days of travel:
As many of you know, I have been living in Chongwe, a town very close to Lusaka completing my pre-service training. Although, just recently the 30 of us Peace Corps volunteers have been split up and taken to our individual provinces for ten days. In other words, I have been in Southern province the past ten days. The first five nights were spent with a current health volunteer giving health talks, cooking on the brazier, exploring the area, learning the language and simply relaxing. After this, each of us were taken to our future village sites. I was given the opportunity to see where I will be living during my service!


Interesting experiences/notes
1 1)   The village I will be living in is called Nabuzoka within an area called Kasiya. Kasiya is home to a college specifically for women seeking managerial and secretarial careers. It is an incredibly interesting contrast between life in the village to life within the college. In the college realm many students and professors come from Lusaka, speak English fluently and have electricity. Outside of this college ‘bubble’ it is village life like you may imagine. Everyone is cooking on braizers with no electricity and speaking the local language.

2    2)  Near my village there is a dam and a hot springs. I found myself laughing as I approached the dam and could only see cows circling, enjoying the dam almost more than the people. Needless to say, I will not be swimming in that dam…

3   3)  In the course of four days I have been here I have met MANY people. When I explained where I am from, what I am doing here and that my Zambian name is Mutinta, they laugh hysterically. I think they are surprised to hear me speak the local language. Many have said they are very impressed by my Tonga which motivates me to continue learning.

4  4)   My host father has three wives. Quite the contrast from America familial dynamics, many people practice polygamy in Southern Province. Last night one of my future host mothers explained that their husband spends two nights with each woman and stays with that rotation. It seems like the wives are all best friends. I keep thinking how this would not be possible in America….ha!


      5) When I am posted to my new site I plan to get a kitten. I am also debating on whether to have chickens or not.

   6) Cows represent wealth. Many do not eat their cows (although they do milk them), rather they are a sign of how much money you have. We have been told as volunteers that if a man is wanting to be with you, you may simply tell them they do not have enough cows for you. I am still waiting to say this.

 
The small natural hot springs we found ;)

Three of these girls will be my future sisters!

Ba Cheleshe and Ba Love (future counterparts)

My future home!